ARIES: Major disconnects with people have been going on for so long it seems as if no amount of communication will straighten things out. Faced with the arrival of someone you wish you didn’t have to talk to, you’re wondering where to begin. They happen to feel just as insecure as you do. The tendency to get defensive needs to be watched. None of this will be resolved if either one of you starts hitting below the belt. Brace yourself. For the time being, the best you can expect may be to agree to disagree.
TAURUS: You’re in a tense situation that requires you to exercise a lot of self-restraint. Things are stable only because everyone involved is respectful of the fact that this could blow up any minute. If it seems like others are the problem, that may be so. But you may need to look at how conflicted you feel. Torn between the commitments you’ve made and your real desires, it could be that all of this tension will be resolved as soon as you wake up to what’s inwardly true. When you figure out what that is, this will all come together.
GEMINI: There are so many things that you would like to change, but you feel unable to do anything about it. Major restrictions appear to be everywhere, but they’re largely in your mind. There’s one possibility or opportunity that you could latch onto right now, and if you can focus on that, you won’t feel so helpless. Taking action is difficult when you’re frustrated and depressed, but doing nothing won’t work for you much longer. There is a way out. Finding it will require you to release a few more fears and a few more tears.
CANCER: Don’t overanalyze people. You’re giving this way more energy that it deserves. Whoever you’re trying to figure out isn’t the least bit concerned about you, and they’re not half as deep as you think they are. It might be better for you to think about what you want out of this. You’ve been basing too many of your decisions on what others consider important and you’ve lost the thread to what matters to you. Detach as much as you can and try to remember that you are more important than whomever you’re catering to.
LEO: Something tells you it’s your move, but you don’t know what to do. If you could deal more honestly with people this wouldn’t be so difficult. Try not to over-analyze something that is really quite simple. Nothing you do can change this and getting more involved will probably make it worse. It may be best to just realize that whatever binds you to this situation has run its course and the only thing you can do is let it go. If that thought scares you, it’s only because you haven’t figured out that you’re done with this.
VIRGO: What we think is in our best interests often isn’t. You keep doing this out of some sense of obligation and you’ve even fooled yourself into thinking that it makes you happy, but it has very little to do with what you really want. Living from the heart takes guts. It’s been so long since you listened to your instincts, getting in touch with what you need to do now will require you to deprogram most of your cherished beliefs. What if you could do what you want here? If you knew what that was you wouldn’t stick around.
LIBRA: Everything is going faster than a speeding bullet and there’s no time to dwell on much of anything. It’s too bad because you’ve got more than your share of personal issues that need to be straightened out. The stress in the relationship area is making you question what you even need to be in one for. If there’s any third party interference, human or otherwise, it’s making it even harder to see what needs to be done. You may need to think about moving, too. With all this change, you can’t afford to overlook the obvious.
SCORPIO: Things started moving a little quicker than you thought they would and it’s caught you off guard. All of a sudden, you’ve got opportunities galore where before you were wondering if you'd ever see another one. Get your act together because this isn’t going to stop. Even if you have to fake it 'til you make it, do your best to keep up with this. New relationships appear to be good, but take your time. The tendency to be overly trusting is so strong with you, it would be easy for anyone to play you for a fool.
SAGITTARIUS: You keep telling yourself that if you knew then what you know now this never would have happened — but it’s too late to change history. You’re in a situation that’s looking pretty crazy, but it’s by no means impossible. And you can’t walk away, so figure out what needs to happen and learn to live within that framework until something comes along to change what you can’t. If you feel bound by old structures and relationships that prevent you from doing your thing, know that they will fall away when you decide to go for it.
CAPRICORN: Having to play head games with intelligent people whose emotional intelligence puts them back at around three-years-old is one of the biggest crazy makers of all time. Whoever’s using their smarts to keep you in your place is operating out of a totally childish, terminally desperate part of themselves, and you’re buying into it. You can’t play this game. The next time they act up, let them know you’re under no obligation to justify anything you do to them, or anyone else who can’t accept you as you are.
AQUARIUS: If you’re feeling impatient you might want to ask yourself why. It’s sheer arrogance to expect life to operate according to your schedule. And you can whine all you want about how you’re ready for a change, a new relationship or a new job, but none of that will happen until you see that if you were ready, those things would be there. What you seem to be missing is the deeper stuff. It isn’t out there, it’s in you. Instead of blaming life and cursing God for the way things are right now, try to see it as if it’s your creation.
PISCES: There’s some question about how long it will take to get out of this. It seems like you’re stuck in the same boat with people who don’t want to be there either. A broader perspective would show you that you’re just moving through a difficult time that is bringing out everyone’s worst fears. No one is at their best when they’re afraid and it makes it very difficult to see the light at the end of the tunnel when you don’t know where you’re going. Things will improve. In about three more months, you will all be home free. |
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